Drop any notion you might have that every networking delegate you meet is listening properly to what you have to say! Some aren’t. They could be nervous, thinking about what they’re going to say next or maybe they’re just not a very good listener!
Little did we realise on March 3rd 2020 that we wouldn’t be running a networking event again for another 18 months! However, at long, long last we’re delighted to see in-person networking events getting confirmed again. Small businesses need networking events to build relationships and new business opportunities
As we get close to heading back to some real world networking events at last – or perhaps attending networking events for the first time – it’s a good time to remind ourselves of what networking actually is. And there’s good news – it’s still just chatting!
At looooooonggggg last our ‘Ten’ sales intel groups met up in person again, after a gap of 15 months. No more ‘You’re on mute’, ‘We can’t see you’, ‘my Wi-fi is playing up’, etc, etc!
It’s now over 10 years since the launch of our first sales intel group group, Sten, with well over £6m in new business won by group members. Especially during this Covid/lockdown period, these fortnightly video meetings have led to even stronger relationships and new business opportunities in a tough marketplace
Watching others doing something well is of course a great way to learn – and keep learning. We all do it in lots of different areas such as the sports we play, so why not with a business (and life) skill like networking?
Over the last 7 years, hundreds of local businesses have joined us as ABN Contact Builders, meeting two other businesspeople each month, developing relationships, supporting each other and winning new business. However, this year is the first time that a Contact Builder membership has been given as a present!
If we very quickly go into talking only about ourselves and our businesses, we’ve missed out the part that comes first – developing rapport. It’s not a sales pitch, it’s a conversation. And conversations are like tennis, they go backwards and forwards
If you’ve tried a few networking events and you just don’t like it, don’t worry, no-one likes everything! And being out there having to speak with different people about different things simply isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. But if you’re in a position where you have to network as part of your job/business, what can you do?
It’s a human fear, a fear that every networker will have had at some point, that we’ll go into a room full of people who all seem to know each other and are deep in conversation. What if we can’t find a conversation to join?